Happy birthday Rekha: From Amitabh Bachchan romance rumours to controversial films | Look Back
Happy birthday Rekha: Rekha, one of Bollywood’s most iconic actresses, turned 70 today, and her life remains as enigmatic as ever. Known for her extraordinary acting skills and ethereal beauty, Rekha's journey in the film industry has been marked by a mix of professional triumphs and personal controversies. From her widely speculated relationship with Amitabh Bachchan to facing backlash for daring film choices, Rekha's story is a saga of survival in the ever-demanding world of Bollywood.
Early life and rise to stardom
Born as Bhanurekha Ganesan on October 10, 1954, in Chennai, Rekha stepped into the film industry at the tender age of 13. Her early years in Bollywood were far from glamorous—she was criticised for her weight, dark complexion, and unconventional looks. Despite these challenges, Rekha gradually established herself as a talented actress with films like 'Do Anjaane' (1976) and 'Ghar' (1978), proving her mettle in emotionally charged roles.
Her breakthrough came with the blockbuster 'Muqaddar Ka Sikandar' (1978), where she starred opposite Amitabh Bachchan. Her performance earned her critical acclaim, and she became a household name. Throughout the 1980s, she continued to deliver strong performances in films like 'Khubsoorat', 'Silsila', and 'Umrao Jaan'.
Rekha and Amitabh Bachchan: The rumored romance
One of the most talked-about aspects of Rekha’s life is her alleged relationship with Amitabh Bachchan. While both actors have remained tight-lipped about their connection, their chemistry on-screen, especially in films like 'Silsila' (1981), gave rise to numerous rumours. In a 1986 interview with Simi Garewal, Rekha hinted at her feelings for Amitabh, saying, "I don’t need to speak to him. He’s always on my mind." This statement added more fuel to the already burning rumours.
Their love story allegedly began during the filming of 'Do Anjaane', where Amitabh was said to have been captivated by Rekha's charisma. However, the situation was complicated, as Amitabh was already married to Jaya Bachchan. Their rumoured affair reached its peak during the shooting of 'Silsila', directed by Yash Chopra, which was seen as a reflection of their real-life love triangle. The film remains iconic, not just for its storyline but for the real-life drama that surrounded its making.
Controversy and confrontation: The dinner incident
Amidst rumours of their relationship, Rekha attended the wedding of Rishi Kapoor and Neetu Singh in 1980, wearing sindoor and a mangalsutra, which further ignited speculation of a secret marriage between her and Amitabh. Reports suggest that Jaya Bachchan later invited Rekha for dinner, during which she reportedly made it clear that she would never leave her husband, Amitabh. This confrontation allegedly marked the end of the speculated romance between Rekha and Amitabh, as Amitabh reportedly distanced himself from her after this incident.
Other relationships and personal struggles
Apart from her connection with Amitabh, Rekha's name has been linked with several other Bollywood actors. She was rumoured to have a relationship with Jeetendra and Vinod Mehra, though these speculations were never confirmed. Her alleged marriage to Vinod Mehra remains a topic of debate, with some claiming that the two tied the knot secretly. However, in a later interview, Rekha denied the marriage, calling Vinod a close friend.
In 1990, Rekha married Delhi-based industrialist Mukesh Agarwal. The marriage, however, turned tragic when Mukesh committed suicide just months after their wedding, citing business losses and depression. Rekha faced harsh criticism and blame for his death. The incident cast a shadow over her public image, yet she chose to stay silent and continued focusing on her career.
Controversial roles and career resurgence
In the 1990s, Rekha took on roles that defied traditional Bollywood norms. Her performances in films like 'Kama Sutra' (1996) and 'Aastha' (1997) stirred controversy due to their bold themes. Though the films did not perform well at the box office, they showcased Rekha’s willingness to challenge societal norms and break free from her conventional image.
In the 2000s, Rekha transitioned into supporting roles, often portraying motherly or mentor-like figures. Her performances in films like 'Koi... Mil Gaya' (2003) and 'Parineeta' (2005) were well received, allowing her to remain relevant in the industry despite the changing dynamics of Bollywood. Her ability to reinvent herself has been a testament to her resilience and adaptability.
A Life of Solitude
Rekha’s personal life has largely remained private, with few close friends and confidantes. Over the years, her personal secretary, Farzana, has been a constant companion. Farzana has reportedly been by Rekha’s side through thick and thin, managing her professional and personal affairs. Media reports suggest that Farzana is the only person who has access to Rekha’s inner world, and their relationship has often been a subject of speculation.
Timeless beauty and ageless charm
Even at 70, Rekha's beauty and charisma continue to captivate audiences. Known for her elaborate makeup, traditional sarees, and iconic red lipstick, Rekha has maintained a timeless charm that remains unmatched in Bollywood. Her makeup artist, Doris, recently described her as "ageless," noting that Rekha carries herself with the grace and energy of someone much younger.
Rekha’s dedication to her physical appearance and well-being is well-documented. She follows a strict diet, practices yoga, and has consistently avoided late-night parties, preferring a life of solitude and meditation. This disciplined lifestyle has allowed her to remain active in the industry, appearing at film events and award shows with her signature style.
Rekha’s enduring legacy
Rekha's journey in Bollywood is a story of perseverance, passion, and survival. She has faced immense challenges, from body-shaming and media scrutiny to personal losses and heartbreaks. Yet, through it all, she has emerged stronger, becoming a symbol of resilience and grace.
Her contributions to Indian cinema have earned her numerous awards, including the prestigious Padma Shri in 2010. As she celebrates her 70th birthday, Rekha remains an inspiration to many—a true icon whose legacy transcends the silver screen.
- With inputs from agencies
